I'm not a baby making machine, married woman cried out

'I'm tired, I'm not a baby making machine! This man here is my husband, he lives abroad, this picture was taken just 2 days after our traditional marriage, for over 4yrs now.

I haven't set eyes on him, we have 3 daughters, our first child is 6yrs old. I'm broken and I'm tired of this type of distant marriage, I do not even feel like a married woman, I'm no different from a widow or a single lady. Can you believe that, I've been married to this man for 10 good years but, the only time, i get to spend time with my husband is when he comes around, every 2yrs to spend just a couple of days or a week to get me pregnant again & take a flight back abroad, It's been 4yrs gone since the birth of our last child and he hasn't even showed up.

Before this man, married me, he promised that, he was going to immidiately start processing my papers, to enable me join him abroad after our marriage but can you imagine that, it's been 10 whole years yet, nothing has been done, I'm still down here. The only time i get to see my husband is when he wants a new baby. After our marriage, i patiently waited but for over 6yrs it was from one excuse to another why my visa isn't ready. So i got curious, Actually before we got married, my husband, confided in me and told me, he was married to a white lady abroad, he explained that he only did, just so he could be comfortable abroad and also quickly, get his papers and promised to divorce this woman after our traditional marriage immediately he goes back.

I was shocked to do my findings 4yrs ago out of curiosity & discovered that, my husband is still married to this same white woman & they even have a child together but when i confronted him, he keeps denying. So, I've been mounting pressure on him to speed up my papers or I'll get in touch with the white woman somehow & xp0s him but instead, he has blocked me on all social platforms & even stoped taking my calls, he blocks me even when i try using a different line to get to him & only gets intouch with me, when he wants to send money or ask after his kids. Honestly. I'm so tired of all these drama.

 Felix! honestly, I'm tired and i can't continue to act like everything is fine mean while it's not. When you came, i even told you that, i was already in a relationship & had someone that loves me & was serious & interested in marrying me, Why did you come down here to ruin my relationship & dce!ve me into marrying you meanwhile, you very well knew that, you'll not be serious nor there for me. This isn't what you promised, I'm 33 yrs old & have 3kids for you. Where do you expect that i start from after ruining life!

Pls people, pity me and help me to expose him, so, this can get to his wife abroad so, she can divorce him, pls I'm crying almost everyday going through dispressiin because of this pls🤦😭". 

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